What's something your children would be surprised to learn about you?

What's something that your children would be surprised to learn about you? Why do you think this would surprise them?

My children would be surprised to learn that I worked, had an amazing career making lots of money, went to college for 6 years and traveled to Italy at age 20 right after 9-11. 

They'd be surprised because all they see and remember is me being home! They never knew the working woman I was, they were too little to remember.  

I bet they'd be surprised to see me as a brave independent traveler. Imagine your Mom going to a foreign country all alone at age 20 with no parents,  friends or family? 

They might know stories but my kids don't really know me as that independent person.

They see me now as a dependent stay at home Mom who just does chores. 

What would your kids be surprised to learn about you?



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